Want to lift your level of happiness?
10. Eight Steps Toward a More Satisfying Life (TIME Feb 28, 2005)
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Want to lift your level of happiness? Here are some practical suggestions from University of California psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky, based on research findings by her and others. Satisfaction (at least a temporary boost) guaranteed
1. Count your blessings. One way to do this is with a 'gratitude journal' in which you write down three to five things for which you are thankful-- from the mundane (your peonies are in bloom) to the magnificent (a child's first steps). Do this once a week, say, on Sunday night. Keep it fresh by varying your entries as much as possible.
2. Practice acts of kindness. These should be both random (let that harried mom go ahead of you in the checkout line) and systematic (bring Sunday supper to an elderly neighbor). Being kind to others, whether friends or strangers, triggers a cascade of positive effects-- it makes you feel generous and capable, gives you a greater sense of connection with others and wins you smiles, approval and reciprocated kindness--all happiness boosters.
3. Savor life's joys. Pay close attention to momentary pleasures and wonders. Focus on the sweetness of a ripe strawberry or the warmth of the sun when you step out from the shade. Some psychologists suggest taking 'mental photographs' of pleasurable moments to review in less happy times.
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practical ½ÇÁ¦ÀûÀÎ, ½Ç¿ëÀûÀÎ. research findings ¿¬±¸°á°ú. temporary ÀϽÃÀûÀÎ. boost ¹Ð¾î ¿Ã¸®±â. °Ý·Á. guarantee º¸ÀåÇÏ´Ù. satisfaction guaranteed ¡æsatisfaction could be guaranteed. blessings ¹ÞÀº º¹, Ãູ. gratitude journal °¨»ç ìíÑÀ(Àϱâ).
mundane ¼¼¼ÓÀûÀÎ. peony íËå·(ÀÛ¾à), ¸ð¶õ. in bloom ²ÉÀÌ ¸¸¹ßÇÑ.
magnificent Àå´ëÇÑ. cf. the + Adjectives(Çü¿ë»ç)¡æÃß»ó¸í»ç ¶Ç´Â º¹¼öº¸Åë¸í»ç.
the mundane ¼¼¼ÓÀûÀÎ °Í. the magnificent Àå´ëÇÑ °Í. first steps ù °ÉÀ½¸¶.
entry ÑÀìý(±âÀÔ), ÑÀî°Ò®é»(±âÀç³»¿ë).
by varying your entries ³»¿ëÀ» ´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô ÇÔÀ¸·Î½á. random µÇ´Â ´ë·ÎÀÇ.
harry ±«·ÓÈûÀ» ´çÇÏ´Ù. harried mom Èûµé¾îÇÏ´Â ÇÒ¸Ó´Ï. systematic ü°èÀûÀÎ.
trigger (¹ÝÀÀ µûÀ§¸¦) ÀÏÀ¸Å°´Ù, ¹æ¾Æ¼è. cascade ÀÛÀº ÆøÆ÷.
a cascade of positive effects ¾öû³ª°Ô ¸¹Àº.
makes you feel generous and capable ´ç½ÅÀÌ °ü´ëÇϰí À¯´ÉÇÏ´Ù°í ´À³¢°Ô ÇÑ´Ù.
sense of connection with others ŸÀΰúÀÇ ¿¬´ë°¨. win=give. approval ½ÂÀÎ. reciprocated kindness º¸´ä ¹Þ´Â Ä£Àý. savor ¸ÀÀ» º¸´Ù. ripe strawberries ÀÍÀº µþ±â.
taking 'mental photographs' of pleasurable moments Áñ°Å¿î ¼ø°£µéÀ» ¸Ó¸® ¼Ó¿¡ »çÁø Âï¾î ³õ´Â °Í.
review ȸ»óÇÏ´Ù.
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4. Thank a mentor. If there's someone whom you owe a debt of gratitude for guiding you at one of life's crossroads, don't wait to express your appreciation--in detail and, if possible, in person.
5. Learn to forgive. Let go of anger and resentment by writing a letter of forgiveness to a person who has hurt you or wronged you. Inability to forgive is associated with persistent rumination or dwelling on revenge, while forgiving bolsters positive feelings about your past and gives you peace of mind.
6. Invest time and energy in friends and family. Where you live, how much money you make, your job title and even your health have surprisingly small effects on your satisfaction with life. The biggest factor appears to be strong personal relationships.
7. Take care of your body. Getting plenty of sleep, exercising, stretching, smiling and laughing can all enhance your mood in the short term. Practiced regularly, they can make your daily life more satisfying.
8. Develop strategies for coping with stress and hardships. There is no avoiding hard times. Religious faith has been shown to help people cope, but so do the secular beliefs enshrined in axioms like 'This too shall pass' and 'That which doesn't kill me makes me stronger.' The trick is that you have to believe them.
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mentor Çö¸íÇÏ°í ¼º½ÇÇÑ Á¶¾ðÀÚ.
owe a debt of gratitude for ...¿¡ ´ëÇØ¼ °¨»çÇØ¾ß µÉ ºúÀ» Áö°í ÀÖ´Ù.
crossroad Ð÷ÖØ(±â·Î). appreciation °¨»ç, ¹Ù¸£°Ô Æò°¡Çϱâ.
don't wait to express your appreciation °í¸¶¿òÀ» Ç¥½ÃÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» ¸Á¼³ÀÌÁö ¸¶¶ó.
in detail ÀÚ¼¼È÷. in person Á÷Á¢, Ä£È÷. go of ±×¸¸ µÎ´Ù. resentment ê³ùÏ(¿øÇÑ).
be associated with ...¿Í ¿¬°üµÇ´Ù. persistent ²÷ÀÓ¾ø´Â, òûèó(Áý¿ä)ÇÑ.
rumination ÚãõÖ(¹ÝÃß), °õ°õÀÌ »ý°¢Çϱâ. dwell on ...À» °õ°õÀÌ »ý°¢ÇÏ´Ù.
revenge Ý¥âÂ(º¹¼ö). bolster µ¸±¸¾î ÁÖ´Ù, ±«´Ù, ¹Þħ´ë.
positive feelings ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ °¨Á¤. invest ÅõÀÚÇÏ´Ù. job title Á÷À§. factor ¿äÀÎ.
enhance °ÈÇÏ´Ù. in the short term ´Ü±â°£ µ¿¾È. regularly ±ÔÄ¢ÀûÀ¸·Î.
strategy Àü·«. cope with ´ëóÇÏ´Ù. hardship ÍÈÑñ(°í³). religious faith Á¾±³Àû ½Å¾Ó.
help people cope ´ëóÇϵµ·Ï µµ¿ÍÁØ´Ù. cf. help¡æ»ç¿ªµ¿»ç, cope¡æ¿øÇüºÎÁ¤»ç.
secular ¼¼¼ÓÀûÀÎ. enshrine ÞæÓÑ(»ç´ç)¿¡ ¸ð½Ã´Ù, ¼ÒÁßÈ÷ °£Á÷ÇÏ´Ù.
axiom °Ý¾ð, Íë×â(°ø¸®). trick ÝúÛö(ºñ¹ý), ÝúÌÁ(ºñ°á).
B. ±¸¹®
-Practiced regularly, they. . . more satisfying.
cf. practiced regularly¡æIf they are practiced regularly¡æbeing practiced
[±×°ÍµéÀÌ ±ÔÄ¢ÀûÀ¸·Î ½ÇÇàµÇ¸é, ±×°ÍµéÀº ´ç½ÅÀÇ ÀÏ»ó»ýȰÀ» ´õ ¸¸Á·½º·´°Ô ¸¸µé ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù.]
-There is no avoiding hard times.
cf. there is no+µ¿¸í»ç¡æ...À» ÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø´Ù.
[°í»ýÀº ÇÇÇÒ ¼ö°¡ ¾ø´Ù.]
-so do the secular . . . enshrined in axioms.
cf. beliefs enshrined¡æbeliefs which are.
so do¡æhelp people cope
[°Ý¾ð ¼Ó¿¡ °£Á÷µÇ¾î ÀÖ´Â ¼¼¼ÓÀûÀÎ ¹ÏÀ½µµ °í³¿¡ ´ëóÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» µµ¿ÍÁØ´Ù.]
-This shall too pass. À̰͵µ Áö³ª°¥ °ÍÀ̷δÙ. cf. shall¡æ¿¹¾ðÀ̳ª ¹ý·É¿¡ ¾²ÀÌ´Â Á¶µ¿»ç.
10. Eight Steps Toward a More Satisfying Life (TIME Feb 28, 2005)
10-1-48
Want to lift your level of happiness? Here are some practical suggestions from University of California psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky, based on research findings by her and others. Satisfaction (at least a temporary boost) guaranteed
1. Count your blessings. One way to do this is with a 'gratitude journal' in which you write down three to five things for which you are thankful-- from the mundane (your peonies are in bloom) to the magnificent (a child's first steps). Do this once a week, say, on Sunday night. Keep it fresh by varying your entries as much as possible.
2. Practice acts of kindness. These should be both random (let that harried mom go ahead of you in the checkout line) and systematic (bring Sunday supper to an elderly neighbor). Being kind to others, whether friends or strangers, triggers a cascade of positive effects-- it makes you feel generous and capable, gives you a greater sense of connection with others and wins you smiles, approval and reciprocated kindness--all happiness boosters.
3. Savor life's joys. Pay close attention to momentary pleasures and wonders. Focus on the sweetness of a ripe strawberry or the warmth of the sun when you step out from the shade. Some psychologists suggest taking 'mental photographs' of pleasurable moments to review in less happy times.
A. ¾îÈÖ
practical ½ÇÁ¦ÀûÀÎ, ½Ç¿ëÀûÀÎ. research findings ¿¬±¸°á°ú. temporary ÀϽÃÀûÀÎ. boost ¹Ð¾î ¿Ã¸®±â. °Ý·Á. guarantee º¸ÀåÇÏ´Ù. satisfaction guaranteed ¡æsatisfaction could be guaranteed. blessings ¹ÞÀº º¹, Ãູ. gratitude journal °¨»ç ìíÑÀ(Àϱâ).
mundane ¼¼¼ÓÀûÀÎ. peony íËå·(ÀÛ¾à), ¸ð¶õ. in bloom ²ÉÀÌ ¸¸¹ßÇÑ.
magnificent Àå´ëÇÑ. cf. the + Adjectives(Çü¿ë»ç)¡æÃß»ó¸í»ç ¶Ç´Â º¹¼öº¸Åë¸í»ç.
the mundane ¼¼¼ÓÀûÀÎ °Í. the magnificent Àå´ëÇÑ °Í. first steps ù °ÉÀ½¸¶.
entry ÑÀìý(±âÀÔ), ÑÀî°Ò®é»(±âÀç³»¿ë).
by varying your entries ³»¿ëÀ» ´Ù¾çÇÏ°Ô ÇÔÀ¸·Î½á. random µÇ´Â ´ë·ÎÀÇ.
harry ±«·ÓÈûÀ» ´çÇÏ´Ù. harried mom Èûµé¾îÇÏ´Â ÇÒ¸Ó´Ï. systematic ü°èÀûÀÎ.
trigger (¹ÝÀÀ µûÀ§¸¦) ÀÏÀ¸Å°´Ù, ¹æ¾Æ¼è. cascade ÀÛÀº ÆøÆ÷.
a cascade of positive effects ¾öû³ª°Ô ¸¹Àº.
makes you feel generous and capable ´ç½ÅÀÌ °ü´ëÇϰí À¯´ÉÇÏ´Ù°í ´À³¢°Ô ÇÑ´Ù.
sense of connection with others ŸÀΰúÀÇ ¿¬´ë°¨. win=give. approval ½ÂÀÎ. reciprocated kindness º¸´ä ¹Þ´Â Ä£Àý. savor ¸ÀÀ» º¸´Ù. ripe strawberries ÀÍÀº µþ±â.
taking 'mental photographs' of pleasurable moments Áñ°Å¿î ¼ø°£µéÀ» ¸Ó¸® ¼Ó¿¡ »çÁø Âï¾î ³õ´Â °Í.
review ȸ»óÇÏ´Ù.
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4. Thank a mentor. If there's someone whom you owe a debt of gratitude for guiding you at one of life's crossroads, don't wait to express your appreciation--in detail and, if possible, in person.
5. Learn to forgive. Let go of anger and resentment by writing a letter of forgiveness to a person who has hurt you or wronged you. Inability to forgive is associated with persistent rumination or dwelling on revenge, while forgiving bolsters positive feelings about your past and gives you peace of mind.
6. Invest time and energy in friends and family. Where you live, how much money you make, your job title and even your health have surprisingly small effects on your satisfaction with life. The biggest factor appears to be strong personal relationships.
7. Take care of your body. Getting plenty of sleep, exercising, stretching, smiling and laughing can all enhance your mood in the short term. Practiced regularly, they can make your daily life more satisfying.
8. Develop strategies for coping with stress and hardships. There is no avoiding hard times. Religious faith has been shown to help people cope, but so do the secular beliefs enshrined in axioms like 'This too shall pass' and 'That which doesn't kill me makes me stronger.' The trick is that you have to believe them.
A. ¾îÈÖ
mentor Çö¸íÇÏ°í ¼º½ÇÇÑ Á¶¾ðÀÚ.
owe a debt of gratitude for ...¿¡ ´ëÇØ¼ °¨»çÇØ¾ß µÉ ºúÀ» Áö°í ÀÖ´Ù.
crossroad Ð÷ÖØ(±â·Î). appreciation °¨»ç, ¹Ù¸£°Ô Æò°¡Çϱâ.
don't wait to express your appreciation °í¸¶¿òÀ» Ç¥½ÃÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» ¸Á¼³ÀÌÁö ¸¶¶ó.
in detail ÀÚ¼¼È÷. in person Á÷Á¢, Ä£È÷. go of ±×¸¸ µÎ´Ù. resentment ê³ùÏ(¿øÇÑ).
be associated with ...¿Í ¿¬°üµÇ´Ù. persistent ²÷ÀÓ¾ø´Â, òûèó(Áý¿ä)ÇÑ.
rumination ÚãõÖ(¹ÝÃß), °õ°õÀÌ »ý°¢Çϱâ. dwell on ...À» °õ°õÀÌ »ý°¢ÇÏ´Ù.
revenge Ý¥âÂ(º¹¼ö). bolster µ¸±¸¾î ÁÖ´Ù, ±«´Ù, ¹Þħ´ë.
positive feelings ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ °¨Á¤. invest ÅõÀÚÇÏ´Ù. job title Á÷À§. factor ¿äÀÎ.
enhance °ÈÇÏ´Ù. in the short term ´Ü±â°£ µ¿¾È. regularly ±ÔÄ¢ÀûÀ¸·Î.
strategy Àü·«. cope with ´ëóÇÏ´Ù. hardship ÍÈÑñ(°í³). religious faith Á¾±³Àû ½Å¾Ó.
help people cope ´ëóÇϵµ·Ï µµ¿ÍÁØ´Ù. cf. help¡æ»ç¿ªµ¿»ç, cope¡æ¿øÇüºÎÁ¤»ç.
secular ¼¼¼ÓÀûÀÎ. enshrine ÞæÓÑ(»ç´ç)¿¡ ¸ð½Ã´Ù, ¼ÒÁßÈ÷ °£Á÷ÇÏ´Ù.
axiom °Ý¾ð, Íë×â(°ø¸®). trick ÝúÛö(ºñ¹ý), ÝúÌÁ(ºñ°á).
B. ±¸¹®
-Practiced regularly, they. . . more satisfying.
cf. practiced regularly¡æIf they are practiced regularly¡æbeing practiced
[±×°ÍµéÀÌ ±ÔÄ¢ÀûÀ¸·Î ½ÇÇàµÇ¸é, ±×°ÍµéÀº ´ç½ÅÀÇ ÀÏ»ó»ýȰÀ» ´õ ¸¸Á·½º·´°Ô ¸¸µé ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù.]
-There is no avoiding hard times.
cf. there is no+µ¿¸í»ç¡æ...À» ÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø´Ù.
[°í»ýÀº ÇÇÇÒ ¼ö°¡ ¾ø´Ù.]
-so do the secular . . . enshrined in axioms.
cf. beliefs enshrined¡æbeliefs which are.
so do¡æhelp people cope
[°Ý¾ð ¼Ó¿¡ °£Á÷µÇ¾î ÀÖ´Â ¼¼¼ÓÀûÀÎ ¹ÏÀ½µµ °í³¿¡ ´ëóÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» µµ¿ÍÁØ´Ù.]
-This shall too pass. À̰͵µ Áö³ª°¥ °ÍÀ̷δÙ. cf. shall¡æ¿¹¾ðÀ̳ª ¹ý·É¿¡ ¾²ÀÌ´Â Á¶µ¿»ç.
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