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"We hate it when parents undermine the education and growth of their children. That's it, plain and simple."
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Ask teachers about the best part of their job, and most will say how much they love working with kids. Ask them about the most demanding part, and they will say dealing with parents. In fact, a new study finds that of all the challenges they face, new teachers rank handling parents at the top. According to preliminary results from the MetLife Survey of the American Teacher, made available exclusively to TIME, parent management was a bigger struggle than finding enough funding or maintaining discipline or enduring the toils of testing. It's one reason, say the Consortium for Policy Research in Education and the Center for the Study of Teaching and Policy, that 40% to 50% of new teachers leave the profession within five years. Even master teachers who love their work, says Harvard education professor Sara Lawrence-Lightfoot, call this 'the most treacherous part of their jobs.'
'Everyone says the parent-teacher conference should be pleasant, civilized, a kind of dialogue where parents and teachers build alliances,' Lawrence-Lightfoot observes. 'But what most teachers feel, and certainly what all parents feel, is anxiety, panic and vulnerability.' While teachers worry most about the parents they never see, the ones who show up faithfully pose a whole different set of challenges.

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Leaving aside the monster parents who seem to have been born to torment the teacher, even 'good' parents can have bad days when their virtues exceed their boundaries: the eager parent who pushes too hard, the protective parent who defends the cheater, the homework helper who takes over, the tireless advocate who loses sight of the fact that there are other kids in the class too. 'I could summarize in one sentence what teachers hate about parents,' says the head of a private school. 'We hate it when parents undermine the education and growth of their children. That's it, plain and simple.' A taxonomy of parents behaving badly:

THE HOVERING PARENT

It was a beautiful late morning last May when Richard Hawley, headmaster at University School in Cleveland, Ohio, saw the flock of mothers entering the building, eager and beaming. 'I ask what brings them to our halls,' he recalls. 'They tell me that this is the last day the seniors will be eating lunch together at school and they have come to watch. To watch their boys eat lunch? I ask. Yes, they tell me emphatically. At that moment, a group of lounging seniors spot their mothers coming their way. One of them approaches his mother, his hands forming an approximation of a crucifix. 'No,' he says firmly to his mother. 'You can't do this. You've got to go home.' As his mother draws near, he hisses in embarrassment, 'Mother, you have no life!' His mother's smile broadens. 'You are my life, dear.''

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